You just need to practice the right technique to not make it hurt. Understandably, you might want to go straight for the big prize and skip all that other diddling about. A lot of women feel unclean and mentally there is some stigma that might make it harder to relax and enjoy oneself. I have tried touching different places and none of them bring me pleasure. I haven't done it more than 12 times in 3 years. Eventually, I worked up the courage to try it in my bedroom. Here are some direct quotes from the marketing of a few sex toys:.
If you are under 18, skip this questionnaire. I've been very shy about asking questions regarding my ability to orgasm. The makeup of the cohort is important. Once in a while I'll masturbate and I've tried using the faucet. You can think about anything you want.
What other things can I try? Female ejaculation is where a small amount of fluid is pumped out of the urethra during orgasm. When having sex, does it feel good for the female on the inside of the vagina too or only outside the vagina? I think you should avoid running water at least for now. Is it because I just switched? It's not unusual to skip a menstrual cycle at your age.
I've been masturbating externally for about a year. You can perhaps see, given those lists and my additional comments, how tough it is to tell someone "how" to masturbate. I should note one benefit of doing it this way is that it's not at all messy because I never stick my finger into my vagina and get it wet. Here are some direct quotes from the marketing of a few sex toys: I've been masturbating by doing sit-ups and leg lifts.